Please dont teach me fancy chords

Regular or simple chords are usually comprised of 3 notes, fancy chords are chords that include 4 or more notes. When I hear fancy chords I get sucked in immediately, its like stepping into quick sand or getting pulled by the oceans current. The rich sounds and textures make me feel like I'm floating on air.

Every now and then I figure out the theory behind some fancy chords and how to execute them.

Though still very beautiful and interesting the moment I can play and understand it, some of the magic disappears.